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For the professional escorts and "sugar babies" who shared their experiences in a recent Reddit thread , the answer ranged from "best sex I've ever had" to sad and traumatising. In response to a NSFW post asking what the biggest difference was between shacking up with a romantic partner, and doing it for money - and what, if any, similarities there were - a diverse range of Redditers detailed their exploits.
Having to pretend to enjoy sex with a stranger was the main variant for one sex worker, who wrote that clients tended to be more daring than her real-life partners. That said, she confessed, "some of the sex I have with my clients is better then having sex with my ex, and I'm getting paid on top of it".
One former sex worker was regretful of her time in industry, saying it had left her with emotional scars. She said there were moments during sex with her partner that she would be reminded of bad experiences as a working girl, which caused her to "get really anxious and panicky like I did with the guys who paid me". A professional escort who had been in the game for "a number of years now" said clients paid for a pre-negotiated "experience", while her boyfriend got the "unfiltered version".
A sugar daddy who sleeps with younger men wrote that his financial arrangement was about more than sex, describing his sugar baby as "almost my best friend". We often will just relax and talk at my hotel when I am in town, with no sex at all. Maybe we'll go to an art show, or listen to a local band at a small venue, or just walk and talk. Sex is an important part of our relationship, but not the only one.
On the other side of the coin, a male sugar baby said the best thing about sex with his sugar daddy was that "he made me feel like I was something special". A young writer who'd signed up for a sugar daddy website for "research" purposes revealed how she got "sucked in" to the lifestyle, striking it lucky with the third guy she hooked up with. I was so wrong. Best sex I've ever had, hands down, and definitely taught me some kinks I didn't know I had. She said the relationship was bordering on love, with "a lot of affection between us", and lasted until she met the man she ended up marrying.